so i met this guy in grad school from Slovakia. And he met this girl here from Morocco. and he was really turned on by her exotic middle eastern looks (yeah, she a beauty) and her docile, unaggressive feminity (as much culture as personality). So he introduced me to her and spent months asking for my advice on getting inside her head. I am not arab, but I am a lot closer to understanding her culturally than he was. So he spent a long time wanting to get in her pants and coming to me for interpretations of what was going on and what the next move would be and what his chances were.
eventually, she came out and flatly told him that she couldn't be engaged in temporary relationships and her family expected her to marry a nice muslim boy, and all the rest of it. but he went out on countless dates with her, kissed in the theater, etc.
he went home Slovakia and invited me to visit. he wanted to sleep with her before he went home to his girlfriend.
so there I am yesterday sitting in the bus and this girl gets on. she doesn't notice me. and I hear her talking to her friend about having to call her husband in morroco to give him her flight information and about how she is looking forward to going home to him over the christmas break.
so what do I have here? a slovak guy with a girlfriend who wanted to sleep with a moroccan girl before he went home to his girl. and a morrocan girl who dated and kissed the slovak guy, told him she liked him, didn't tell him she was married, and avoided sleeping him by telling him that it was because he wasn't muslim.
I am quite amused at this game that played out and I realize that but for this chance sighting on the bus, I would never have realized the game.
so what do I do? do I call my friend in slovakia? or do I just laugh at this private joke? I'll just have a laugh, I think :smile:
eventually, she came out and flatly told him that she couldn't be engaged in temporary relationships and her family expected her to marry a nice muslim boy, and all the rest of it. but he went out on countless dates with her, kissed in the theater, etc.
he went home Slovakia and invited me to visit. he wanted to sleep with her before he went home to his girlfriend.
so there I am yesterday sitting in the bus and this girl gets on. she doesn't notice me. and I hear her talking to her friend about having to call her husband in morroco to give him her flight information and about how she is looking forward to going home to him over the christmas break.
so what do I have here? a slovak guy with a girlfriend who wanted to sleep with a moroccan girl before he went home to his girl. and a morrocan girl who dated and kissed the slovak guy, told him she liked him, didn't tell him she was married, and avoided sleeping him by telling him that it was because he wasn't muslim.
I am quite amused at this game that played out and I realize that but for this chance sighting on the bus, I would never have realized the game.
so what do I do? do I call my friend in slovakia? or do I just laugh at this private joke? I'll just have a laugh, I think :smile: