Hi gang,
I like this community a lot and feel people here can share my thought. Just want to know here in ESB, when did people have their first baby. I am 27 yrs old, but dont think I am ready for kid yet, financially and mentally. I wonder how you become ready for a new life.
Do you prepare for it and become ready, or when your wife pregnants, it forces you to be ready?
I guess I still have selfish mindset where I feel kid is going to rob my time for fun. You know, things like motorcycling, computer, or gaming. I feel the kid will change my way of life and I really dont sit too well with that. It's the feeling of uncertainty that scares me the most. Please, share your thoughts with me. I am seriously looking for some hints and advices on this issue.
Mark :help:
I like this community a lot and feel people here can share my thought. Just want to know here in ESB, when did people have their first baby. I am 27 yrs old, but dont think I am ready for kid yet, financially and mentally. I wonder how you become ready for a new life.
Do you prepare for it and become ready, or when your wife pregnants, it forces you to be ready?
I guess I still have selfish mindset where I feel kid is going to rob my time for fun. You know, things like motorcycling, computer, or gaming. I feel the kid will change my way of life and I really dont sit too well with that. It's the feeling of uncertainty that scares me the most. Please, share your thoughts with me. I am seriously looking for some hints and advices on this issue.
Mark :help: